Do women like men who have slept with many women?

This is probably a post made by a “man” who’ve slept with many of women, and want verification it’s not ever something I’ve heard a woman say they prefer, aside from that though most of the time you won’t get a truthful body count from men or women. Mainly even more now because truth is damn near not something known on planet earth anymore, let alone LOYALTY. For the girls with high body counts im sorry you either felt the responsibility to be some one pump chump’s cum rag or made to feel like slut cause you couldn’t find what you was lacking. Or maybe feel you attract just sexual attention from guys, the feeling of being loved doesn’t feel like it’ll ever happen even but I promise it’s just what these men who can’t make you cum/orgasm want you to feel, the same ones running around making girls feel special just to fuck are the same ones that watched their dad cheat and beat their mom, sorry not sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️, but you are only feeling this way because they don’t want you to explore MEN, but coming from a genuine low body count gal, who was not sexually aroused by just any guy, being someone who wasted years at a time on guys I hoped could potentially be worth the time I spent giving them pleasure only to find other women, or that they had a porn addiction and that you wasn’t pleasing them like YOU thought. While seeing how other girls were getting pleased by someone I thought was entirely all eyes on me, considering them not having to do shit. While at the end of the day, praying for something better, asking god for something real, and being so blind to the fact 3.5 years of YOUR life was wasted, again. I would rather waste years learning from my mistakes, and sticking with what I thought I deserved, with one guy at a time for a long period then I would rather raise the chances of getting aids/stds from jumping from street to street, trying to find a happiness that is only put in your life not found. While most men and women would rather fuck strangers knowing no disappointment or embarrassment would be a problem. It’s the ones willing enough to suffer for even a little with someone who cums from the littlest of touching and hearing “best cock you’ll ever have”, ^BEFOFE I CONTINUE ON *NEVER EVER EXPECT MUCH FROM A GUY WHO BRAGS ABOUT HIS OWN COCK, THE “MEN” THAT SAY THEIR DICK IS BIG, ARE THE SAME ONES THAT STATE “ILL BE THE FIRST TO MAKE YOU CUM!, AND OBVIOUSLY NOT” I obviously got ZERO satisfaction or pleasure of the bragging and “dominance they felt by hyping up their own cock” I was always left disappointed and sick of them having a hot head because they can’t read the room and finally because some girl is excited and didnt complain about them cuming quick, and definitely wasn’t why they thought 😊. I DONT GET RUNNING AROUND, STAY SINGLE AND WAIT FOR THE RIGHT TIME. There’s ways around cumming quick (taking turns with pleasure) there’s ways around not enjoying eating a girl out, but putting something else in its place that PLEASES HER, MY ADVICE TO THE STUBBORN ONES, IS LITERALLY SETTLE THE FUCK DOWN WITH SOMEONE THAT WAS LITERALLY PLACED IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE, OBVIOUSLY WHAT YOU LACK WILL NOT BE APPARENT OR OBVIOUS, don’t freaking push them away because you’d rather “please” multiple girls/men over one you could actually bring the fantasies to reality while she experiences real orgasms and you actually ejaculate to the goddamn moon, while feeling pleased fully and satisfied by someone who enjoys watching you nut instead of the girls who wanna be the hallway for your hot dog. or vice versa the man wanting to be the pig to your blanket. But you won’t be given that opportunity if you DONT TAKE IT, In order to be /FOUND\ by the one who I myself would be patient for all over again, just to feel something I never thought was even possible for my body, let alone something I would be able to feel just by the thought of feeling what he made me feel, even while I’m typing this big book I feel it and it makes all the awful experiences nonexistent, when you actually experience making love and not just being a benefit to making that person that would never be looked at by a low body count is just more of a reason to feel like a waste bucket. For both genders not just ways around BUTTTTT my personal preference is low over high.

That being because I set expectations and have standards for myself and what I want, I don’t settle for less or bottom of the barrel. I mainly don’t prefer a guy with a high body count because that obviously means they didn’t want to take the time to get to know the woman and was just all about sex, some woman like just being a cum dumpster for men and that’s fineeeeee, IM NOT JUDGING THE ONES WHO PREFER TO HOP AROUND!!, or judging the men who are sex addicts and want to explore. BUT I just have always found having deep conversations and actually getting to know each others turn ons and fantasies before jumping straight into sex, being far more enjoyable. then someone whose body count is high the main reason being they can’t settle and experience with one person. Or maybe even childhood stuff caused you to be weary and anxious about attachment but you enjoy sex. But finding men who hasn’t experienced every position, entered every hole possible, and just overall did everything already is sorta hard nowadays. One people not being open, and two not being honest. I never understood why people couldn’t tell others the truth like baby even if your body count scares me away, I atleast will know we have different preferences. Yes I want someone who knows how to use their cock and I don’t wanna hear that the men who know how to properly use their cock to please a women is the ones with high body counts, cause let me tell you, the men who’s body counts are low, are the [MEN] who take the time to study and realize EVERY GIRL IS DIFFERENT, and not all like the same shit. But The guys that expect you to be into everything they are because they got experience, or pressure you into wanting to try the things they did with someone else and realized they enjoyed it with them SPECIFICALLY. Need to realize it’s best to lasso that girl down!! And realize that not ever girl is going to be open to do whatever you learned from someone else. I can’t stress to y’all enough the amount of times I’ve took my time to ask important sexual questions and know that person deeper to then start dating that person and get hit with the “I forgot to sayyyy” and it be something wayyyy out of the ball park> “would you eat my ass” and instantly be disappointed, not only did you waste my time, but you wasted your own to find someone(s) who is into that. (And yes that is from past experience, sadly). The thrill of trying new things together, (that we agree on) I just enjoy the fact of being so bonded with someone on on a deeper level to the point you orgasm or get really wet just thinking about what they’ve done and how they did it. It being the most leg shaking, pussy dripping experience ever. Just think about how things you never thought of trying with anyone else, or much more importantly ENJOYED! Is something you want with the person you took the time to study and they studied you aswell, while also giving lessons to one another to learn what y’all like together!!, I’m sorry I’m not one of those girls who personally enjoy hoping around. But that’s because I dont get wet or even enjoy the sound of letting a random stranger who is gonna “bust” from my vagina for their pleasure, while also cumming quick and knowing you, YOURSELF as a man cums awfully quick and dont even consider going atleast another round, even if it’s another quickie you still TRIED, but THENNN thinking it couldn’t possibly get any worse then having the nerve to ask unpleasant questions such as, “did you cum?”, “am I the first to make you cum this much” knowing damn well you know the answers to them questions, if I came or got wet from you why would you ask for me to get your dick wet to begin with🤦🏻‍♀️, and if you can’t tell I came or orgasmed then you should probably take a break jack hammer. Not gonna lie until I hit 22 i had never (came) for anybody, and even porn didn’t get me the slightest of horny, I genuinely thought something was wrong with me. but then I realized from my childhood trauma I needed the opposite of letting people please themself, and taking advantage. but instead someone who would make sure you knew you wasnt different and wanted to learn what didnt make me wet before and what I was lacking and it so happened to be someone with a low body count, but also someone who enjoyed giving me pleasure as much as I enjoyed giving in return ( especially with my mouthhhh) I just feel as if most women settle for less and was made to believe they didn’t deserve the best. I for real didn’t know I hadn’t orgasmed, or got wet naturally on my own, or clueless as to why I was never asked if I had orgasmed before and it wasn’t my fault no one took their time to wanna please me. And to be honest until I met the MAN I am with now, I really only enjoyed pleasing, and learning the different ways to do so. But to the very few guys who got lucky and didn’t feel the need to bring me pleasure because I was stupid thank youuuuu!, I found what I was needing and set boundaries and expectations, for not only myself, but my body, I went through something very traumatic as a 15 year old girl, and didn’t get to lose my virginity to someone of my choosing. While also thinking I would never be fully comfortable giving my body to someone while also trusting they won’t find me weak/vulnerable but also finding the strength to believe they won’t hurt me. FINALLY i AM HAPPY AND DIDNT GO SEARCHING BUT INSTEAD LITERALLY FOUND, AN ACTUAL MAN WHO IS PLEASED BY KNOWING MY BODY WHILE HAVING PATIENCE WITH ME!! , not only did he message me randomly but he isn’t just some random guy, we actually talked in the beginning of high school but the time wasn’t right. I never thought I would even talk to him again, he was my bestest friend then, but even more now!.